Money is a crucial element in life; but it can make you selfish and egoistic. Of course everyone wants to spend on a few things, but you have to balance yourself and realize spending can be evil. When you have financial problems, you should get help fast; but most of them are too proud, they still continue with their stupid habits. You effect people around you and add more problems to yourself. It sucks ok! Especially if your related to that person. It emotionally hurts to hear that from your own relative. It can be the pain in the ass but sometimes you have the urge to help, but you know you can't. Firstly, you have a family to take care of. Secondly, We're not rich. Thirdly, it's a bit too much to give. Fourthly, ok theres no four; but i think thats enough reasons.
You should find financial help. seriously. You have relatives that can help your financial problems.
But don't go asking for more money. We care. :)